If you realize that the your breakup was a huge mistake and you want to make things right, there are a few simple things you should do, and shouldn’t do, if you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back.
Here are some do’s and don’ts that may help you find out the real reason the two of you broke up and how you can get back together without repeating the same mistakes:
Try to find the true problems in your relationship. It’s way too easy to get caught up in the symptoms of the problems instead of focusing on the root problem itself. Try to find the root cause so you can fix it.
Own up to the mistakes you made in the relationship. It’s very difficult to do, most of us have a really easy time seeing the faults of our partners but it gets much less clear when we are trying to focus on our own issues.
Be willing to learn new ways of communicating. Few relationships fall apart when a couple really knows how to communicate. This is about way more than just talking, it’s about using the right words to explain how you feel without ridiculing the other person. It’s also about listening, sometimes to things you’d really rather not have to hear, and try not to get angry or defensive.
Rehash ancient history. You both know what happened, you were there. It’s time to find the root of the problem without reliving all the gory details.
Blame your partner for everything. No one is completely innocent when it comes to a relationship ending. Instead of pointing your finger, try to take a look at yourself and concentrate on making you the best you you can be. You take care of you and let your partner take care of themselves.
Get mad or act like a stalker. Give your ex plenty of time to figure out what she wants. You can use this time to learn more about yourself and figure out what changes you should be making. When the time does come for the two of you to talk, you will have to prove to her that it won’t just end up in another fight. That is the only way you will get her to agree to meet with you.
Keep these Do’s and Don’ts in mind when you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back. It might take some time to convince her that you really are willing to make changes and that the two of you can meet and talk without it turning into a screaming match, just try to be patient.