It is quite common for people to fall in and then out of love, it happens all the time.
All relationships will go through rough patches and some people just don’t deal with them well and then the relationship falls apart.
Those who can deal with the rough patches well will come out stronger and happier in the end.
If your relationship is going through a tough time you might find yourself looking at other couples and wondering why you and your partner can’t be as happy as them. Well there is no reason why you can’t be just as happy; you may just need to work a bit to get through this tough stage.
If you really love your partner you will be prepared to do whatever it takes to save the relationship and when you do you know it will be worth it.
It is a good idea to try and wipe the slate clean and start again.
Recapture those moments that you had when you first started dating and you can do this by starting to date again.
Go out on a date to the movies or to dinner and just spend time enjoying each other’s company.
If you find this isn’t enough and that there are just some issues that need to be worked through then you need to learn to communicate so you can work through the problems.
There are methods for working through problems as a couple and bringing the spark back into your relationship. You don’t need to just struggle along in a troubled relationship, you can bring the love back into it.
You can really change a relationship around and turn it into a rock solid relationship that will stand the test of time.
Every relationship deserves the effort to make it work and particularly if you know your partner is the one you want to spend your life with. Bring the love back and live happily for many years to come.
How To Be Sweet To Your Girlfriend:
When you want to learn how to be sweet to your girlfriend, just listen to and follow your heart. Bring her flowers, or candy, or buy a card, or write a love note. Keep in mind though, if she thinks she’s fat or is trying to lose weight, rethink the candy. She will think you are an insensitive jerk and it will only get you into trouble.
If you try the other three up there listed in the first paragraph, or come up with something else on your own, she will think that you are all the sweet she will ever need.
Try some things like cooking her dinner or suggesting you two go for a walk together. If you hold hands when you go someplace she will think that is sweet, too. Talk to her about things she is interested in or ask her about things she would like to try and hasn’t yet, then do your best to make them happen for her. Spoil her a little bit every now and then.
Plan a romantic getaway for just the two of you. Make all the arrangements and surprise her with it. A nice warm beach for an extended weekend would probably do the trick. Or maybe a ski weekend where you could spend your days on the slopes and your nights in front of a roaring fire with a couple of nice glasses of wine.
Keep in mind that if you want to know how to be sweet to your girlfriend, it’s the small things that make a big difference. Having the coffee ready just the way she likes it when she gets out of the shower or something as simple as taking the time to lower the toilet seat every time you leave the bathroom. It may not seem like a big deal to you but she will think it is a sweet thing to do.
At this point, you may be thinking, what is in all this for me. Well, if you do any of these things for her she will recognize them for what they are and respond in kind and do sweet things for you, too. Think of it as a ‘win-win’ situation.
Do not, however, do sweet things just to try to get a reward and be an insensitive jerk the rest of the time. She is not stupid and will see through this and eventually tire of the games and kick you to the curb. Be sweet and mean it, otherwise you will find yourself in search of a new girlfriend.
If your relationship with your girlfriend stands on solid ground being sweet to her will only strengthen it but if your relationship is a little rocky then being sweet can and will save it from being destroyed.
There is no limit to the sweet things that you can do to keep your girlfriend happy. The main things to remember are, treat her with dignity and respect, never ridicule or belittle her. She is just as important to the relationship as you are. Learn how to be sweet to your girlfriend and she will be sweet to you.
Also published on Medium.