There are many reasons that a marriage can break up. In a few cases these issues are just too much and they’ve built up over such a long period of time it will be tough to salvage the relationship and get back together, but there are other times when something rather simple to fix goes wrong and both people can reconcile. No matter what your situation is, there is a chance that you can get your ex husband back.
There is no one solution that will work for everyone in every circumstance, but there are a few things that tend to help a lot of people and may help you.
The first thing you have to do is to seriously decide if you really want to get back with your ex. Not all relationships should be saved, and this is definitely true if there was any type of abuse, and it’s important for you to make sure that your desire to get your ex back is because you love him and truly believe that there was more good than bad about your relationship and not just insecurity and a fear of being alone.
Secondly, you and your ex will need to make a commitment to not only work on the relationship but for each of you to address your own personal issues and be willing to make changes.
The third thing you have to keep in mind is that none of this is about placing blame. More than likely you’ve both made your share of mistakes. It is about owning up to your own mistakes and admitting to them and making an honest, sincere effort to correct the inappropriate behavior that got you into this situation in the first place.
Don’t forget, a good marriage is about two people who like, love, and respect themselves, and like, love, and respect each other, and when they combine they can form an even stronger ‘one’.
Keep these tips in mind on how to get your ex husband back. With love, time, patience, and a little know how, you and your ex might be back together much sooner that you would have thought possible.