You may think it’s impossible to get back ex girlfriend, but it’s not as hopeless as you think, especially if you know how to do it. There are some things you can do that will greatly increase the chances of you being able to reconcile with your ex. The good news is that there is nothing sneaky or underhanded about it.
People make so many silly mistakes when it comes to their relationships. It’s very easy to do and if you know what those mistakes are, you’ll have a much better chance of avoiding them.
For one thing, while you might think that it’s important for you to stay in touch with your ex so they don’t forget about you, this is actually a very bad thing to do. Why, Because it makes you seem desperate and even a nice person can let that go to their head.
It’s much better to let your ex know that you still care and that you’d love to get back together, and then keep your distance. Don’t play hard to get or try to make her jealous, just let her know how you feel and live your life.
After a little while has passed and she’s had plenty of time to miss you and possibly reconsider the breakup, you can contact her and ask her if she’d like to meet.
If she says that she’s not interested you have no choice but to walk away, I know this may be the hardest thing in the world for you to do, but if you don’t and you make a big scene you will not only lose any chance of her ever changing her mind, you will also convince her that she is much better off without you.
If she agrees to talk you have to make sure that you don’t allow the conversation to become a fight. For the most part, you will be able to set the tone. Don’t get mad, don’t bring up past issues, and don’t point out what she did wrong.
When you meet prove to her that you are capable of accepting responsibility for your part in what went wrong. Own up to your mistakes and let her know what you plan to do things differently so they don’t happen again.
Talk is cheap and there is a good chance she’s heard it all before. If you really want to show her you mean what you say, then show her you mean what you say! Walk the walk. If you can sit down with her and calmly discuss these issues without getting mad or defensive she might just see another side of you, and consider getting back together.
It’s such a shame, but so many good relationships get ruined just because two people never really learn how to talk to each other. Sure, they can yell and scream and blame the other person, but they don’t try to get to the root of the problem. If you can learn to do that you have a good chance to get back ex girlfriend.